Relationships...Currently in a newer one, about 2 months into it, yet Ive known him for about 6 months. Hes a pretty good guy. I mean, i cant be too picky, gotta take the good with the bad I guess. Other wise I'd have a life virsion of the Ken barbie doll as a boyfriend...A girl can dream cant she? haha!
anyways! Back to the point!
Stupidity. How far can it go? Seriously, in a relationship you should do 50/50% effort, correct? ha, well.
here's where stupidity on his part becomes a problem, a big one... DRUNK DRIVING. If you have done it, you are stupid, end of story. Ywill end up killing yourself or someone else. Exactly last night I had to jump a median between the road I was on, into the road that was being newly constructed on the other side, a man was in my lane coming straight at me, so it was my only option, but he ended up hitting the car behind me head on because they didn't have time to react, two adults & one of the two children died in that accident, the one kid that's alive I visited in the hospital today, he has brain trauma & may never be normal again. But don't you guys worry because the drunk guy that did all this is completely fine & doesn't remember a thing.... This makes me just so upset... Today my boyfriend was talking about going to a party tonight and Isaid "okay just don't drink & drive" & he replied with " I'll probably have too"...well...no you don't, its called spending the night people, so by this time I was furious. I told him what I told you earlier about killing yourself or someone else. He then had the balls to ask "are you mad at me" so I said "it doesn't even matter because your probably going to do it anyways no matter what my answer is to that question" & he went on explaining how he would Wait a couple hours & blahh blahh blahhhh. I told him " like I said, it wouldn't matter what I say" now this very second hes trying to do the whole guilt trip thing.. "babe, fine, I wont drink ill just sit there & watch everyone else have fun" ... NOT WORKING ON ME BUDDY! I told him "I don't care what you do" of course I said that thinking he would ponder about it some more & then realize he was being dumbass, but I guess that's asking too much of this kid. Before you all go thinking I'm a bitch, just realize I only get upset over this stuff because I care and don't want to see him get hurt or someone else... What do you think, Is what he doing bullshit, or am I just over reacting?
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